I hate to say it, but I don't see this ending well. Doctors don't have time for anything really they are overworkedand tired all the times. You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church: It's cruel to suggest it. He says it is harmless and is only fantasy as there is no touching involved. If she can see that YOU are what is important in the relationship, not what you or she believes, ya'll have a chance. We will see what life has in stock for me and this brilliant cardiologist.
I definitely don't want to lead her on. Her beliefs are innocous but ultimately a death sentence for this relationship. If not watch it. She'll be hoping that you're going to convert and if neither is happy with the other being as they are, you'll find yourself divorced shortly down the road. I have already been told I will "lose" to medicine if I put pressure on him. Get used to it. Where there is temptation Hardworking or not, many of them work with beautiful women and actually do carry out affairs.
Now if your faith is not so strong to begin with, this perhaps is no big deal. Am constantly trying to be the understanding girlfriend and try to remain humble towards him at all times but It hurts a lot. He has no vices, is the happiest person I know, is a healthy role model of manhood for my teen daughter and loves me to the depth of his soul. I wish I had not ignored the signs whiles we dated but now I am out of energy. If it seems one is unable to find a spouse within the church, which commandment do you keep. Imagine if all the men in the world weighed over pounds and acted like slobs. Many Mormons stick to a small group of friends within the church. When my nomo husband does go to church we discuss the talks. She got engaged 3 months later.
Going along with her cult might feel fine when it is just you in her, but if you have kids, it will be very different. We moved city over 6 months ago which was in the best interests of her career as well as mine. There are plenty of marriages between Mormons and non-Mormons. Her attempts to convert you will get stronger and stronger, if you make it clear to her that you will not under any circumstances convert, she'll bounce. I admit it is sometimes depressing going to bed without him and getting up seeing him still studying but I am sure we will survive this. I know many other nurses that also married young docs, only to have the marriage fail. You will be able to best gauge where her beliefs stand in regards to the church if you listen to how she describes her mission.