Good luck to you and your boyfriend. I can say this. Being what you can even for 2 hours a week will help. We have a happy marriage. I am a doctors wife. But he's got to know the aggravation and pain that he likely will face.



I read through a few of the LDS. And sometimes I think we equate easiness with happiness. It is hard work.
First, my dad was a wonderful husband to my mother the greatest mom on earthand a wonderful father to me. You can also attend their singles conferences, or participate in social activities organized by the Church. When my daughter needs challenged in soccer, I took her everywhere, I studied vocabulary list with them, wrote essay with them, math facts……. The scriptures say that one of the main reasons good people don't join the church is because they just haven't been introduced to it. Her church is more important to her than you are ever will beplain and simple. Where do you find Mormon girls. I also think he is not used to anyone telling him "no" or going against his opinion. No complaints whatsoever though GF or BF and spouses of physicians quickly understand that medicine isn't a profession Many times you will be second. Make an honest effort, and see if you reach the walk-away point.
He was not a prominent man in the church. And your future kids will be taught that you are the reason they don't have an "eternal" family. If you are an atheist or a non-believer, then let your date know, and politely decline the invitation. That is the shit storm on the road ahead of you. I hope it all works out for you. They are always dressed in decent clothing, and the same is expected of their date. No sex before marriage. Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. And yet when retirement comes up in the conversation, its a definite "not while I have the skills "- 75 maybe.